This is a parent appreciation post, but not the tidy kind. I talk about the 11-year journey of coming out, the grief of never getting to tell my mother, and the complicated, grace-filled path my dad and I walked after a member of his church threatened to out me if I didn’t tell him myself. It’s about loss, love, and the slow, beautiful work of becoming known — and still being loved.
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Between Silence & Grace: A Parent Appreciation Post
On grief, queerness, and a long road to being known
May 15, 2025

Heretic in the Holler
A queer Appalachian unpacks religious trauma one diary entry at a time. Expect cringeworthy updates twice a week-ish.
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